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Friday 9 June 2017
Come Now Is The Time To Worship lyrics-Phillips, Craig & Dean
New! Read & write lyrics explanations
Come, now is the time to worship.
Come, now is the time to give your heart.
Come, just as you are, to worship.
Come, just as you are, before your God.
Come.
One day every tongue will confess
You are God.
One day every knee will bow.
Still the greatest treasure remains for those
Who gladly choose you now.
Come, now is the time to worship.
Come, now is the time to give your heart.
Oh, come. Just as you are to worship.
Come just as you are before your God.
Come.
One day every tongue will confess
You our God.
One day every knee will bow.
Still the greatest treasure remains for those
Who gladly choose you now.
(Repeat)
Come, now is the time to worship.
Come, now is the time to give your heart.
Come, just as you are to worship.
Come, just as you are before your God.
Come.
Oh, come. Oh, come. Oh, come.
Worship the Lord. Oh, come.
Come, come, come...
Come, now is the time to give your heart.
Come, just as you are, to worship.
Come, just as you are, before your God.
Come.
One day every tongue will confess
You are God.
One day every knee will bow.
Still the greatest treasure remains for those
Who gladly choose you now.
Come, now is the time to worship.
Come, now is the time to give your heart.
Oh, come. Just as you are to worship.
Come just as you are before your God.
Come.
One day every tongue will confess
You our God.
One day every knee will bow.
Still the greatest treasure remains for those
Who gladly choose you now.
(Repeat)
Come, now is the time to worship.
Come, now is the time to give your heart.
Come, just as you are to worship.
Come, just as you are before your God.
Come.
Oh, come. Oh, come. Oh, come.
Worship the Lord. Oh, come.
Come, come, come...
OLD RUGGED CROSS
And I love that old cross where the dearest and best
For a world of lost sinners were slain
So I'll cherish the old rugged cross till my trophies at last I lay down
I will cling to the old rugged cross and exchange it some day for a crown
[ steel ]
To the old rugged cross I will ever be true it's shame and reproach gladly bear
Then he'll call me some day to my home far away where his glory forever I'll share
So I'll cherish the old rugged cross...
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Favorite Song Of All
Favorite Song Of All lyrics
New! Read, write and Sing along lyrics explanations
He loves to hear the wind sing
As it whistles through the pines on mountain hills
And He loves to hear the raindrops
As they splash to the ground in a magic melody
He smiles in sweet approval
As the waves crash to the rocks in harmony
Creation joins in unity
To sing to Him majestic symphonies, but
Chorus
His favorite song of all
Is the song of the redeemed
When lost sinners now made clean
Lift their voices loud and strong
When those purchased by His blood
Lift to Him a song of love
There's nothing more He'd rather hear
Nor so pleasing to His ear
As His favorite song of all
And He loves to hear the angels
As they sing" Holy, Holy is the Lamb"
Heaven's choirs in harmony
Lift up praises to the Great I Am
But He lifts His hands for silence
When the wicked, saved by grace, begin to sing
And a million angels listen
As the newborn soul sings, "I've been redeemed!"
Repeat chorus
It's not just melodies and harmonies
That captures His attention
It's not just clever lines and phrases
That causes Him to stop and listen
But when any heart set free
Washed and bought by Calvary
Begins to sing
Repeat Chorus
Holy, Holy, Holy is the Lamb
Hallelujah, Hallelujah (repeat 2X)
As it whistles through the pines on mountain hills
And He loves to hear the raindrops
As they splash to the ground in a magic melody
He smiles in sweet approval
As the waves crash to the rocks in harmony
Creation joins in unity
To sing to Him majestic symphonies, but
Chorus
His favorite song of all
Is the song of the redeemed
When lost sinners now made clean
Lift their voices loud and strong
When those purchased by His blood
Lift to Him a song of love
There's nothing more He'd rather hear
Nor so pleasing to His ear
As His favorite song of all
And He loves to hear the angels
As they sing" Holy, Holy is the Lamb"
Heaven's choirs in harmony
Lift up praises to the Great I Am
But He lifts His hands for silence
When the wicked, saved by grace, begin to sing
And a million angels listen
As the newborn soul sings, "I've been redeemed!"
Repeat chorus
It's not just melodies and harmonies
That captures His attention
It's not just clever lines and phrases
That causes Him to stop and listen
But when any heart set free
Washed and bought by Calvary
Begins to sing
Repeat Chorus
Holy, Holy, Holy is the Lamb
Hallelujah, Hallelujah (repeat 2X)
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Nigerian Airforce DSSC Recruitment _ How-To-Apply [2017]
GENERAL GUIDELINES FOR THE DSSC 2017
PLEASE READ THE INSTRUCTIONS CAREFULLY
Online Registration starts on 18th May, 2017 and closes on 15th June, 2017
Online Registration starts on 18th May, 2017 and closes on 15th June, 2017
Application Guidelines
GENERAL INSTRUCTIONS
APPLICATIONS ARE INVITED FROM QUALIFIED NIGERIANS FOR DIRECT SHORT SERVICE COMMISSION INTO THE NIGERIAN AIR FORCE IN THE UNDERLISTED DEPARTMENTS:
APPLICATIONS ARE INVITED FROM QUALIFIED NIGERIANS FOR DIRECT SHORT SERVICE COMMISSION INTO THE NIGERIAN AIR FORCE IN THE UNDERLISTED DEPARTMENTS:
- Information Technology:
MS.c/ BSc./HND Computer Software Engineer, Data Administrator, Network Administrator/ Engineer, Network Security Experts,Web master, Info Tech/Computer Science, Computer Engineering/Electrical & Electronics Engineering. - Medicals:
MBBS, MBchB or equivalent. Must be fully registered by the Medical and Dental Council of Nigeria and must possess a current practicing license in any of the specialities listed.- MBBS, MB ch D
- Consultant – Ophthalmologist
- Consultant - Surgeon
- Consultant - Physician
- Consultant - O & G ( Female)
- Consultant - Pediatrics
- Consultant - Radiologist
- Consultant - Orthopedic
- Consultant - Family medicine
- Consultant - Anesthetists
- DENTAL SURGERY
BDS, B ch D - Nurses –B.Sc/ RN and Rm (Double Qualification)
Must possess B.NSc with RN/RM or HND with RN/RM. BSc Nursing with any other qualifications in nursing field such as ICU, A&E, Theatre, Ophthalmic and Nurse Anesthetics will be an added advantage. Candidates must have a current Nursing and Midwifery Council of Nigeria (NMCN) license to practice as a Nurse. - SPECIAL FORCES
Must possess BA in PE and must be well built physically with not less than 1.78m height. - EDUCATION
B. Ed Mathematics/Computer Science, B.Ed English, B. Ed Physics, B. Ed Chemistry, BSc Guidance & Counselling( Female). - ACCOUNTING
BSc/HND Accounting
General Information To Candidates
- Applicants must possess a minimum of Second Class Upper for holders of First degree and Upper Credit for HND holders. Computer literacy will be an added advantage.
- Applicants must possess NYSC Discharge Certificate or Letter of Exemption from NYSC at the time of applying for DSSC.
- Applicants must possess certificates of full registration with their respective statutory professional bodies in Nigeria where applicable.
- Male applicants must not be less than 1.66 meters tall while female applicants must not be less than 1.63 meters tall. However, candidates applying for special forces must not be less than 1.78m height and must be physically well built.
- Applicants should be between 22 and 30 years of age by 31st December 2017. Any age declaration done earlier than 5 years to this exercise will not be acceptable. Those who will be older than 30 years by 31st December 2017 need not apply, except for Consultants.
-
Applicants are to make a choice from the centers below for the Zonal Enlistment Exercise.
- Makurdi: Nigerian Air Force Base, Markudi
- Bauchi: Nigerian Air Force Base, Bauchi
- Lagos: Sam Ethnan Air Force Base, Ikeja - Lagos
- Enugu: 113 Helicopter Combat Training Group, Enugu
- Port-Harcourt: 115 Special Operations Group, Port Harcourt
- Kaduna: Nigerian Air Force Base, Kawo - Kaduna
- Interested applicants are to apply free of charge online at www. airforce.mil.ng
- Zonal Enlistment Exercise will hold from 1 - 8 July 2017.
-
Shortlisted Applicants are to bring the following to the Zonal Enlistment Centers:
- Birth Certificate
- Originals of Education Certificates and NYSC Discharge Certificate
- Letter of Attestation of Good Character
- Attestation of Parent / Guardian Consent Form
- Attestation of Local Government Area Form
- Acknowledgment Card
- Writing Materials (for aptitude test)
-
Applicants are to print out the underlisted documents after completion of application online:
- Attestation Form
- Acknowledgment Card
- Serving Military personnel are to note that documents listed in a-b above are not applicable to them, however the special attestation form is to be filled by their current Unit Commander.
- Applicant's local Government attestation form must be signed by a military officer who hails from the state of the applicant and not below the rank of Wing Commander or equivalent in the Nigerian Army and the Nigerian Navy, and Police Officer of the rank of Assistant Commissioner of Police and above. Local Government Chairman/Secretary, Magistrates and Principals of government secondary schools from applicants' state of origin can also sign the attestation forms.
- Additionally, applicants are to bring with them Local Government Indigeneship certificate from their Local Government.
- Photocopies of all documents and credentials will be collected from applicants after screening during the Zonal Enlistment Exercise and Interview.
- Technical Support:
For Technical Support, please call:
09064145533, 08043440802 and 08053440802 or
Email: recruitment@airforce.mil.ng
Note: All phone lines are available between 8:30AM and 5:30PM - Please comment on the box provided and ask your question and objection
- Goodluck
Wednesday 7 June 2017
5 Lifelong Lessons I’ve Learned About Marriage
5 Lifelong Lessons I’ve Learned About Marriage
Today is my 15th wedding anniversary, and in honor of my beautiful (inside and out) wife Robin and her supernatural ability to put up with me for so long, I want to share a few lessons I’ve learned along the way. Please hear me: we don’t have it all figured out. We have our ups and downs like any normal marriage, but we’ve made it this far by the grace of God and we’ve picked up a few hard earned lessons along the way:
1. You can never put your marriage on cruise control. You would have thought that after 15 years we would have figured enough out where we could coast for awhile. Wrong. Each of us has a gravitational pull towards our own selfish desires. Cruise control will ultimately take us towards destructive ends. That’s why after 15 years of marriage, I’m still working on how to be a better husband, still fighting so our marriage can stay strong and true. When you stop investing in and working at your marriage, that’s when it starts dying.
2. Kids are a blessing and a burden. We have four kids, all of them 10 and under, which means we haven’t slept in a decade. We wouldn’t trade them for the world, but they’ve brought more stress and more burden than almost anything else in our marriage. Please hear me: kids are the greatest blessing in a marriage and we thank God every day for our four, but if you have kids thinking it’s going to be a cakewalk, then you’re smoking something.
3. Marriage is the greatest cure for selfishness. God was ingenious when he created the institution of marriage, because it’s been the greatest discipleship tool in my entire life. I can learn as much head knowledge as I want to in church, but it’s in my marriage where I actually put it to work. Submitting myself to my wife, letting go of my selfishness, putting her wants and needs above my own, the gritty sweaty work of discipleship, happens in the crux of my marriage.
4. If you can solve money you’ve solved 85% of your arguments. Now I get why Jesus spoke out so strongly against money. It’s not that he was poor and needed anything or he hated money, but he knew the destructive power of money in a marriage. Robin and I have gotten into debt several times and have had to do the hard work of getting right back out. If your aim is to make enough money, you’ll never be satisfied. Throw in a few kids you want to give the world to, and you’ve got the recipe for the majority of your arguments. By far the majority of our arguments as a couple is trying to decide how to spend our limited resources on the unlimited options around us.
5. It’s amazing how much you win when you choose to lose. The most often repeated phrase of Jesus in the gospels is “if anyone loses their life, they will find it.” No truer words were said about the beauty of marriage. It’s amazing how when I choose myself, choose my wants, choose my desires, when I choose to win, I ultimately lose, hurting myself and my family in the process. But when I choose to lose, to put the needs of my family ahead of myself, to give up hobbies and pastimes, to let others choose where we go on vacation this year, it’s amazing how much I end up winning. I guess Jesus was right all along.
5 Lifelong Lessons I’ve Learned About Marriage
5 Lifelong Lessons I’ve Learned About Marriage
Today is my 15th wedding anniversary, and in honor of my beautiful (inside and out) wife Robin and her supernatural ability to put up with me for so long, I want to share a few lessons I’ve learned along the way. Please hear me: we don’t have it all figured out. We have our ups and downs like any normal marriage, but we’ve made it this far by the grace of God and we’ve picked up a few hard earned lessons along the way:
1. You can never put your marriage on cruise control. You would have thought that after 15 years we would have figured enough out where we could coast for awhile. Wrong. Each of us has a gravitational pull towards our own selfish desires. Cruise control will ultimately take us towards destructive ends. That’s why after 15 years of marriage, I’m still working on how to be a better husband, still fighting so our marriage can stay strong and true. When you stop investing in and working at your marriage, that’s when it starts dying.
2. Kids are a blessing and a burden. We have four kids, all of them 10 and under, which means we haven’t slept in a decade. We wouldn’t trade them for the world, but they’ve brought more stress and more burden than almost anything else in our marriage. Please hear me: kids are the greatest blessing in a marriage and we thank God every day for our four, but if you have kids thinking it’s going to be a cakewalk, then you’re smoking something.
3. Marriage is the greatest cure for selfishness. God was ingenious when he created the institution of marriage, because it’s been the greatest discipleship tool in my entire life. I can learn as much head knowledge as I want to in church, but it’s in my marriage where I actually put it to work. Submitting myself to my wife, letting go of my selfishness, putting her wants and needs above my own, the gritty sweaty work of discipleship, happens in the crux of my marriage.
4. If you can solve money you’ve solved 85% of your arguments. Now I get why Jesus spoke out so strongly against money. It’s not that he was poor and needed anything or he hated money, but he knew the destructive power of money in a marriage. Robin and I have gotten into debt several times and have had to do the hard work of getting right back out. If your aim is to make enough money, you’ll never be satisfied. Throw in a few kids you want to give the world to, and you’ve got the recipe for the majority of your arguments. By far the majority of our arguments as a couple is trying to decide how to spend our limited resources on the unlimited options around us.
5. It’s amazing how much you win when you choose to lose. The most often repeated phrase of Jesus in the gospels is “if anyone loses their life, they will find it.” No truer words were said about the beauty of marriage. It’s amazing how when I choose myself, choose my wants, choose my desires, when I choose to win, I ultimately lose, hurting myself and my family in the process. But when I choose to lose, to put the needs of my family ahead of myself, to give up hobbies and pastimes, to let others choose where we go on vacation this year, it’s amazing how much I end up winning. I guess Jesus was right all along.
Tuesday 6 June 2017
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Sunday 4 June 2017
Nnamdi Kanu: 'We don't care if you send him back to prison,' IPOB tells FG
Nnamdi Kanu 'We don't care if you send him back to prison,' IPOB tells FG
The IPOB stressed that the Federal Government would be making a major mistake by arresting Kanu again.
The Indigenous People of Biafra (IPOB) has said the group is not bothered about the Federal Government's plan to re-arrest its leader, Nnamdi Kanu over breach of bail conditions.
Justice Binta Nyako had granted Kanu bail on April 25, 2017, with conditions the IPOB camp consider 'unconstitutional'.
The judge barred Kanu from granting interviews and participating in any rally.
Justice Nyako also prohibited him from being in any crowd of more than 10 persons.
It
was reported on Saturday, June 3, that the Federal Ministry of Justice
in Abuja said Kanu has repeatedly breached his bail conditions.
The
ministry, which is in charge of the IPOB leader's prosecution, said it
is taking record of the breaches and may ask the court to revoke his
bail.
In reaction to the ministry's statement, the IPOB said the Federal Government would be making a major mistake by arresting Kanu again.
The group's spokesman, Comrade Emma Powerful, said the revocation of Kanu’s bail would not affect the agitation for Biafra.
"We don’t give a damn – whether they arrest him (Kanu) or not we don’t bother," Powerful said in an email he sent to Punch.
"Whether keep Nnamdi Kanu in or out of Nigerian prisons, the restoration effort continues unabated."
He added that "Having Mazi Nnamdi Kanu in prison is always good for the struggle to restore Biafra."
Petrol Price Increase Dear lawmakers, don't allow the devil use you
Petrol Price Increase Dear lawmakers, don't allow the devil use you
Senators intend to tax Nigerians some more for petrol. It's a devilish piece of legislation
Boko Haram kills 21 in Borno
Boko Haram kills 21 in Born
At least 21 persons have been reportedly killed in two separate Boko Haram attacks in villages near Chibok in Borno State.
Chibok Hassan, a Chibok resident, told TheCable that attacks happened on Sunday and Wednesday.
According to Hassan, the insurgents first struck at Kaya, a village 27 km from Chibok, causing residents to desert their homes.
He said, “There is no single soul
remaining there (Kaya). The Boko Haram members came in the evening with
their motorcycles, bicycles and started firing at everyone in sight.
“They burnt many houses. Those who were
fortunate ran away, but those who couldn’t escape were attacked. All the
villagers have moved out of the village.
“People did not hear about the killings because the village is not accessible. It is located inside the bush.”
Hassan said two days after the incident,
the attackers returned to a village close to Gumsri, a Borno community,
where 14 persons were allegedly killed.
“Within two days, they returned and
attacked the next village close to Gumsri which acts as a sort of
roadblock between us and Boko Haram.
“As it is, all the villagers in those
communities have ran away, they have packed their belongings and come to
Chibok. So many attacks and innocent lives have been lost in Damboa LGA
but it is usually not reported.
“For us in Chibok, we are living in fear
because that it is the only place that has been a roadblock against
them. Some people that cannot withstand the situation are even moving to
Maiduguri which is safer for them,” he added.
On whether there are no soldiers on the
ground during the attacks, he said the soldiers around found it
difficult to get to the place of the attacks “because of the far
distance from where they are to the village.”
“Even with the presence of a brigade,
the problem the security people face here is that mostly, the
communities attacked are under Damboa council but the soldiers are
closer to Chibok,” he added.
The military spokesperson, Sani Usman,
did not confirm the report, as calls made to his telephone were not
answered and he did not also reply the text message sent.
Friday 2 June 2017
Ex-wife still controls him
Ex-wife still
controls him
RelationshipsComments Dear Bunmi, I met my husband five years ago when he was separated from his wife. As soon as his divorce went through, we got married and his 16-year-old son now lives with us. He rarely sees his mother and she seldom calls him. They also have a 17-year-old daughter who opted to live with her mother. I’ve always been pleasant to her when she calls, yet she refuses to meet me. Her brother accepts me, so why can’t she? I’ve lost the will to be nice to her. After her calls, my husband tells me what she’s been up to, but I can’t be bothered to show any interest. His ex-wife has now started to ring him more often. She always wants him to solve one problem or the other, especially about their daughter. She was the one who caused an end to the marriage. In a few weeks, the daughter will be IS and she’s made plans for an elaborate birthday party in her house. His ex and their daughter are always asking for money and my husband is too soft to say no, despite knowing how upset this makes me. I don’t know what to do. Am I being unreasonable? I know my husband loves me, but having his ex around is making me unhappy. Demi, by e-mail. Dear Demi, A man needs to distance himself from his ex if he is to form a strong relationship with someone new. Although your husband divorced his wife, they remain emotionally tied and each would like to get over their hurt. The children too wouldn’t say no to reconciliation. You have walked into a family’s mess and it’s no wonder you feel insecure. Something has to give. The victims here are the two adolescent children who ‘re confused and harmed by the divorce. Do not think of them, or judge them as you would two adults. They’re insecure teenagers and you need to help them maintain good relationships with their parents. If the daughter remains hostile, grin and bear it. Forgive her resentment of a new wife who has intruded into her parents’ broken relationship. By trying to love your husband’s children you will strengthen the loyalty and affection he now gives you. Let him realise he needs to place more emphasis on your relationship instead of running to his ex at the slightest opportunity. Time, though, will sort this mess out and your soon-to-be-IS step-daughter will mellow once she starts committed dating.
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-h Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-him/
RelationshipsComments Dear Bunmi, I met my husband five years ago when he was separated from his wife. As soon as his divorce went through, we got married and his 16-year-old son now lives with us. He rarely sees his mother and she seldom calls him. They also have a 17-year-old daughter who opted to live with her mother. I’ve always been pleasant to her when she calls, yet she refuses to meet me. Her brother accepts me, so why can’t she? I’ve lost the will to be nice to her. After her calls, my husband tells me what she’s been up to, but I can’t be bothered to show any interest. His ex-wife has now started to ring him more often. She always wants him to solve one problem or the other, especially about their daughter. She was the one who caused an end to the marriage. In a few weeks, the daughter will be IS and she’s made plans for an elaborate birthday party in her house. His ex and their daughter are always asking for money and my husband is too soft to say no, despite knowing how upset this makes me. I don’t know what to do. Am I being unreasonable? I know my husband loves me, but having his ex around is making me unhappy. Demi, by e-mail. Dear Demi, A man needs to distance himself from his ex if he is to form a strong relationship with someone new. Although your husband divorced his wife, they remain emotionally tied and each would like to get over their hurt. The children too wouldn’t say no to reconciliation. You have walked into a family’s mess and it’s no wonder you feel insecure. Something has to give. The victims here are the two adolescent children who ‘re confused and harmed by the divorce. Do not think of them, or judge them as you would two adults. They’re insecure teenagers and you need to help them maintain good relationships with their parents. If the daughter remains hostile, grin and bear it. Forgive her resentment of a new wife who has intruded into her parents’ broken relationship. By trying to love your husband’s children you will strengthen the loyalty and affection he now gives you. Let him realise he needs to place more emphasis on your relationship instead of running to his ex at the slightest opportunity. Time, though, will sort this mess out and your soon-to-be-IS step-daughter will mellow once she starts committed dating.
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-h Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-him/
His ex-wife still
controls him
On May 30, 201710:00 pmIn RelationshipsComments
Dear Bunmi,
I met my husband five years ago when he was separated from his wife. As
soon as his divorce went through, we got married and his 16-year-old son
now lives with us. He rarely sees his mother and she seldom calls him.
They also have a 17-year-old daughter who opted to live with her mother.
I’ve always been pleasant to her when she calls, yet she refuses to
meet me. Her brother accepts me, so why can’t she? I’ve lost the will to
be nice to her. After her calls, my husband tells me what she’s been up
to, but I can’t be bothered to show any interest.
His ex-wife has now started to ring him more often. She always wants him
to solve one problem or the other, especially about their daughter. She
was the one who caused an end to the marriage.
In a few weeks, the daughter will be IS and she’s made plans for an
elaborate birthday party in her house. His ex and their daughter are
always asking for money and my husband is too soft to say no, despite
knowing how upset this makes me. I don’t know what to do.
Am I being unreasonable? I know my husband loves me, but having his ex
around is making me unhappy.
Demi, by e-mail.
Dear Demi,
A man needs to distance himself from his ex if he is to form a strong
relationship
with someone new. Although your husband divorced his wife, they remain
emotionally tied and each would like to get over their hurt. The
children too wouldn’t say no to reconciliation.
You have walked into a family’s mess and it’s no wonder you feel
insecure. Something has to give. The victims here are the two adolescent
children who ‘re confused and harmed by the divorce. Do not think of
them, or judge them as you would two adults. They’re insecure teenagers
and you need to help them maintain good relationships with their
parents.
If the daughter remains hostile, grin and bear it. Forgive her
resentment of a new wife who has intruded into her parents’ broken
relationship. By trying to love your husband’s children you will
strengthen the loyalty and affection he now gives you.
Let him realise he needs to place more emphasis on your relationship
instead of
running to his ex at the slightest opportunity. Time, though, will sort
this mess out and your soon-to-be-IS step-daughter will mellow once she
starts committed dating.
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-him/
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-him/
His ex-wife still
controls him
On May 30, 201710:00 pmIn RelationshipsComments
Dear Bunmi,
I met my husband five years ago when he was separated from his wife. As
soon as his divorce went through, we got married and his 16-year-old son
now lives with us. He rarely sees his mother and she seldom calls him.
They also have a 17-year-old daughter who opted to live with her mother.
I’ve always been pleasant to her when she calls, yet she refuses to
meet me. Her brother accepts me, so why can’t she? I’ve lost the will to
be nice to her. After her calls, my husband tells me what she’s been up
to, but I can’t be bothered to show any interest.
His ex-wife has now started to ring him more often. She always wants him
to solve one problem or the other, especially about their daughter. She
was the one who caused an end to the marriage.
In a few weeks, the daughter will be IS and she’s made plans for an
elaborate birthday party in her house. His ex and their daughter are
always asking for money and my husband is too soft to say no, despite
knowing how upset this makes me. I don’t know what to do.
Am I being unreasonable? I know my husband loves me, but having his ex
around is making me unhappy.
Demi, by e-mail.
Dear Demi,
A man needs to distance himself from his ex if he is to form a strong
relationship
with someone new. Although your husband divorced his wife, they remain
emotionally tied and each would like to get over their hurt. The
children too wouldn’t say no to reconciliation.
You have walked into a family’s mess and it’s no wonder you feel
insecure. Something has to give. The victims here are the two adolescent
children who ‘re confused and harmed by the divorce. Do not think of
them, or judge them as you would two adults. They’re insecure teenagers
and you need to help them maintain good relationships with their
parents.
If the daughter remains hostile, grin and bear it. Forgive her
resentment of a new wife who has intruded into her parents’ broken
relationship. By trying to love your husband’s children you will
strengthen the loyalty and affection he now gives you.
Let him realise he needs to place more emphasis on your relationship
instead of
running to his ex at the slightest opportunity. Time, though, will sort
this mess out and your soon-to-be-IS step-daughter will mellow once she
starts committed dating.
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-him/
Read more at: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/05/his-ex-wife-still-controls-him/
In France Woman hides corpse of mother in freezer to claim pension of deceased
In France Woman hides corpse of mother in freezer to claim pension of deceased
The suspect reportedly hid her mother's corpse in a freezer in order to claim her pension.
Tech Here's what Earth might look like in 100 years — if we're lucky
Tech Here's what Earth might look like in 100 years — if we're lucky
Even if the US remains part of the Paris climate accord, the best situation we can hope for is pretty worrisome.
Buhari London is the best option for President's treatment - Lai Mohammed
Buhari London is the best option for President's treatment - Lai Mohammed
Mohammed explained that London is the best treatment Buhari deserves as the President of Nigeria.
WORD FOR THE DAY
WORD FOR THE DAY
PERMEATE
DEFINITION
..spread throughout and be present in every part of it; pervade; saturate; penetrate
..to pass through the pores or interstices of
..Bias against women permeates every level of the judicial system.
..An obvious change of attitude at the top will permeate through the system.
..To permeate through a membrane means to pass through by dissolving and then diffusing it.
..Something sinister has begun to permeate the collective psyche.
...Cynicism permeated his report.
..Past insults and slights have not been forgotten, and permeate his thinking.
..The lovely smell permeated the room.
..A deep sense of loss permeates Frost's poetry.
..Bright sunshine permeated the room.
..Rain permeated through the soil.
..Dissatisfaction with the government seems to have permeated every section of society.
..A foul smell of beer permeated the whole building.
..The table has a plastic coating which prevents liquids from permeating into the wood beneath.
..The water permeated the sand.
Artist: Alice Lavery
PERMEATE
DEFINITION
..spread throughout and be present in every part of it; pervade; saturate; penetrate
..to pass through the pores or interstices of
..Bias against women permeates every level of the judicial system.
..An obvious change of attitude at the top will permeate through the system.
..To permeate through a membrane means to pass through by dissolving and then diffusing it.
..Something sinister has begun to permeate the collective psyche.
...Cynicism permeated his report.
..Past insults and slights have not been forgotten, and permeate his thinking.
..The lovely smell permeated the room.
..A deep sense of loss permeates Frost's poetry.
..Bright sunshine permeated the room.
..Rain permeated through the soil.
..Dissatisfaction with the government seems to have permeated every section of society.
..A foul smell of beer permeated the whole building.
..The table has a plastic coating which prevents liquids from permeating into the wood beneath.
..The water permeated the sand.
Artist: Alice Lavery
WORD FOR THE DAY
WORD OF THE DAY
OSTENTATIOUS
Adjective
DEFINITION
..attracting or seeking to attract, admiration, or envy, often by gaudiness or obviousness; overly elaborate or conspicuous; too obvious
..showing your knowledge, power, money or possessions in an attempt to make other people notice and admire you
..pretentious; vulgar; in bad taste
..He was known for his ostentatious display of knowledge.
..His ostentatious hatred of the revolutionary parties made him a natural object for accusations.
..Bill writes in a voice that is simultaneously folksy and ostentatious.
..As soon as the piece was published, ostentatious and divided reactions immediately flooded Twitter.
..She owns a fleet of ostentatious cars and several grand mansions.
..He was always dressed smartly, but not in an ostentatious way.
..The public criticized the ostentatious lifestyle of their leaders.
..The designer dress was a simple design that looks glamorous without being ostentatious.
..There was nothing ostentatious about their home.
..She wears an ostentatious diamond ring and a pearl the size of a marble.
..He used his wealth to live a lavish and ostentatious life.
..There are no cases of ostentatious opulence amid poverty.
..He took out his gold watch and laid it ostentatiously on the table in front of him. (adverb)
The room was ostentatiously decorated in white and silver. (adverb)
Photographer Unknown
OSTENTATIOUS
Adjective
DEFINITION
..attracting or seeking to attract, admiration, or envy, often by gaudiness or obviousness; overly elaborate or conspicuous; too obvious
..showing your knowledge, power, money or possessions in an attempt to make other people notice and admire you
..pretentious; vulgar; in bad taste
..He was known for his ostentatious display of knowledge.
..His ostentatious hatred of the revolutionary parties made him a natural object for accusations.
..Bill writes in a voice that is simultaneously folksy and ostentatious.
..As soon as the piece was published, ostentatious and divided reactions immediately flooded Twitter.
..She owns a fleet of ostentatious cars and several grand mansions.
..He was always dressed smartly, but not in an ostentatious way.
..The public criticized the ostentatious lifestyle of their leaders.
..The designer dress was a simple design that looks glamorous without being ostentatious.
..There was nothing ostentatious about their home.
..She wears an ostentatious diamond ring and a pearl the size of a marble.
..He used his wealth to live a lavish and ostentatious life.
..There are no cases of ostentatious opulence amid poverty.
..He took out his gold watch and laid it ostentatiously on the table in front of him. (adverb)
The room was ostentatiously decorated in white and silver. (adverb)
Photographer Unknown
Thursday 1 June 2017
Ambode: 10 things you should know about sacked pastor saga
Ambode 10 things you should know about sacked pastor saga
Pastor Femi Taiwo has been axed from the Lagos State chapel. We've been following the story enough to share.
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