The 10 Attributes of Wildly Successful People You Should Memorize Now
You know those people who seem to ace everything in life? Researchers have uncovered their secrets to success.
Secrets of success
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We all know people who seem to be accomplished in their every pursuit. So it's especially interesting to read a new
British study
that drills into the 10 attributes that make people extra good at what
they do. And they all have a few things in common. For starters, they
identify and understand their strengths when pursuing a goal, says
Amanda Potter, the lead researcher, founder, and managing director at
Zircon Management Consulting, a business psychology company in England.
High achievers also tend to be motivated by a negative or positive life
event, and they credit their success to having someone in their life who
believed in them. After conducting interviews with 42 high-achievers,
including a range of CEOs, entrepreneurs, sports stars, and media
personalities, Potter concluded that we all have a different combination
of winning attributes—in other words, no two winners are exactly the
same—however, all successful people have some or all of 10 specific
attributes. "For example, it may be your single-minded focus and
determination or it might be your curiosity and willingness to disrupt
the current situation that makes you successful," she says. Read on as
our two experts explain why the qualities that engender success and why
they're so key.
Burning ambition
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Successful
people are driven to achieve their goals, but for the ultra-successful
there's an even bigger mandate, says Isaura Gonzalez, PsyD, a licensed
clinical psychologist in New York City. "Burning ambition takes into
account the desire to hit your mark each and every time as well as an
unrelenting desire to be the best of the best."
Say these mantras every day to reach your goals.
Dogged determination
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Being
doggedly determined means that obstacles are not deal-breakers, but
mere inconveniences that need to be overcome. "There is no hesitation,
just action, when it comes to success," Gonzalez says. "Success comes
when you have hit your mark, and determination is the road on which you
travel to hit that mark." Get ready to troubleshoot with this
guide to handling tricky interpersonal situations.
Realistic optimism
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Optimism
is important, but you can't expect that the sun will shine 100 percent
of the time. "It's imperative to focus on maintaining positivity while
acknowledging the realistic obstacles that can deter us from achieving
our goals," Gonzalez says. "It's not thinking that nothing will ever go
wrong. Rather, it's about thinking that we can achieve what we set out
for ourselves even if there are setbacks." Here's
what optimistic people do every day to see the glass half-full.
Unwavering belief
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Believing
in your product or goals is important but it's also wise to stay
balanced when it comes to yourself and the world around you.
"Super-successful people take into account weaknesses or deficits as
well as the positives," Gonzalez says. "They understand that despite
anything and everything, they can achieve the goals they set for
themselves."
Find out what successful people do at work every day.
Intrinsic generosity
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This
is the concept of starting from the outside in. "Super successful
people take care of those around them—the team, customers, and family
come first," Gonzalez says. "Individuals who are successful are often
givers. They give of themselves to satisfy the needs of others and
derive genuine satisfaction from it."
Mutual respect
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The
most successful people know that they get a major boost from the people
in their life who help them be productive, whether it's a supportive
spouse, a colleague, or a receptionist, says Susan Kuczmarski, EdD, a
cultural anthropologist and author of
Becoming a Happy Family.
"These people are as valuable to you as the COO or the CFO. Accomplished
people know that everyone needs to benefit and participate in the team
to be successful."
Here's why showing gratitude is the most important thing you do in the workplace.
Maximizing opportunities
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Successful
people are the first ones to create new ways to network with others or
new spinoffs of tried-and-true concepts. "By sharing this knowledge with
others, each person who surrounds this trailblazer will be successful
too," says Kuczmarski.
Even if you're naturally an introvert, you can still build meaningful networks to get ahead.
Disruptive thought
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To
be super successful, you need to be a life-long learner. "Equally
important, you have to be willing to learn and to fail—and yes, I used
the word 'fail' because it should not be a dirty word," Kuczmarski says.
"Disruptive, innovative thinking involves failure, learning and moving
forward with more knowledge in hand." Did you know that
Disney's Frozen was almost a failure?
Constant curiosity
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To
be a winner, a person must replenish their knowledge and know-how.
"When people stay curious about the world around them, they will become
more creative," Kuczmarski says. "This will help free them for more
personal growth too."
Single-minded focus
As
successful people know, professional passion is the opportunity to
engage in something you truly love, and it's one of the biggest keys to
being super successful. "But there is a prerequisite," Kuczmarski says.
"You have to work in an environment that nurtures this. If that exists,
success will follow." Research shows that simple tweaks to your
environment and behavior can
make you more creative every day.
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